Tuesday, September 16, 2014

When it's Over. Time to Be Honest.

I mentioned a few days ago that I was going through some things but couldn't get into details.I feel that now's the time to share with you some of what's been going on. The truth is, my whole life is falling apart.

Jarod and I are getting a divorce.

We got married October 9th, 2011. I was happy. I was in love. I had high-hopes for our future together. I was marrying my best friend and excited to start a family with him. It was one of the best days of my life.

I will not get into the details of what happened as I would never want London, or his friends, to come across this post. His dad and I will talk to him when he's old enough to understand.

There's still a LOT of stuff that needs to be worked out but Jarod and I are on the same page. We both want to put London's needs first and do what's best for him. We are hoping to meet with our lawyer next week and finalize the details on custody and finances. We plan on selling the house but are hoping to both buy a place in the same area we live. I'm sad to give up my dream house but know that's not what's important.

Jarod and I have been together eight years and I know we will be both be okay. Together, we created the most beautiful baby boy and he is going to grow up with parents that love him more than anything.

Thank you to my amazing family and friends that continue to support me, make me smile and comfort me when I'm a complete mess.

Please excuse my lack of posts, comments and interactions lately. 

I'll be back soon,


  1. Love you. None of this is easy but we are all here for you. xoxo

    1. And you're right, as long as you both have London's best interest at heart everything will be ok. You will be ok. You're an amazing woman who will find her happily ever after one day. xoxo

  2. I'm so sorry Kaella. If you ever need anything you know you have an amazing community you can reach out to.

  3. I love you Kaella. I know this post wasn't easy to write. I know because I've written it. You already know I've got your back, 24/7 whenever you need me. <3

  4. I'm sorry you are going through this. It sounds like you have a great support network and both have your son's best interests at heart.

  5. Thinking of you friend. I am here if you ever need anything, call, text or email. This is hitting too many friends, I have another good friend who just told me the same thing yesterday. My hear hurts for you but I know you are doing the best thing for yourself and family.

  6. So sorry to hear about this hard time Kaella! Sending good vibes your way!

  7. I know I don't know you that well, but I'm still so sorry to hear this news and that you are going through this tough time right now. I can only imagine how hard this must all be, regardless if it's the right decision or not. Sometimes the best decisions are the hardest ones to make. Your readers will be here when you are able to post :) <>

  8. Lots of love your way, beautiful Lady! Thanks for giving me a little heads up on Instagram! Kaella, you are amazing, and I'm so sorry you have to go through all of this! : ( Wish I could hug you for real, but an online one will have to do! Thoughts and prayers!

  9. Oh sweetness, I'm sorry you're going through a rough time and please know that I'm here if you want to chat. I understand we don't really "know" each other, but I can absolutely relate to what you're going through.


  10. I am so sorry you are going through this. But you have to do whats best for you. And London is one lucky boy to have 2 parents who love him so. Always here and sending you huge hugs!! And ice cream always helps. :)